Wednesday night, Roy was out of town so I had the TV to myself. After watching Dancing With the Stars (which is reallllllllly stupid this year and which will probably be my last episode of watching), I stayed tuned for some new sitcoms on ABC. The first was called
Modern Family and it was talked up to be a funny show. The show opened with a mom hurrying to finish making school lunches while organizing her family's breakfast, too. Her husband is on his blackberry and not helping and not engaged in conversation, while their teenage daughter comes down in a too-short skirt. The mom "suggests" that it's too short, while the dad barely looks up to support her suggestion. The daughter just rolls her eyes. This made me so mad! As I watched the show, I was really getting irritated. Some of the character story lines were gross and just totally inappropriate. Another scene showed the same mom in the kitchen asking her younger daughter what her older daughter was doing. The daughter replied that she and her friend (who was a boy) were laying in her bed watching a movie. The mom just stopped, looked up as if to tell herself to remain calm and relax, and then just went on doing what she was doing. Huh?
The next show,
Cougar Town, came on with Courtney Cox. I liked her in Friends, so I thought I"d give this one a try (seriously, there was nothing on TV Wednesday night). This show was awful!!! The entire show was about a 40-something single mom who wanted to have sex, so she picks some random young guy in a bar for her prey. In this show her teenage son sees her lifestyle and is more of the parent than the child. This mom also purposely flashes a teenage boy and is constantly drinking large glasses of wine at night because she feels like a loser with no life. Again, this show made me mad and sick.
Now, please know that I wasn't sitting on the couch watching these shows intently. I was on my computer and the volume for the TV was on low so I would look up from time to time. The next show that came on,
Eastwick, was ridiculous! I honestly couldn't believe it was allowed to be on TV. I ended up turning the TV off within the first 15 minutes and heading on to bed. As I was brushing my teeth, it made me sad to think that these are the examples of American families these days.
When I was growing up, my family gathered in front of the TV each week to watch
The Cosby Show, Our House and Family Ties. The Cosby Show, especially, was so good and wholesome. The parents loved each other,
were in control of their house and their children. The children respected the parents and their rules--they didn't even think to talk back or roll their eyes. The family could have fun together. The dad was the head of the house and he was strong and smart--not a goof-off loser like dads are portrayed as on TV today. Oh, it makes me so mad how fathers are represented on TV. I can't think of one "Bill Cosby-like" dad on TV today.
So, I realized that the good old days of gathering around the TV to watch a sitcom as a family are over, too. There is not one show I can think of on network television aimed at families that doesn't include sex, rudeness, homosexuality, provcative dress, bad words. It's really sickening and depressing. How sad that this is what some people view as normal or as an example of family.